Video Transcript: Self-Love, Self-Hate, and the Brave Heart Technique
Charlene Bollinger: Be honest, and ask yourself. Do I love myself? During this next presentation, our good friend Dr. Wolfe really hits the nail on the head. When he says, “your personality creates your reality,” it’s true. If you go through life with negativity and hostility, your environment crumbles with it.
Ty Bollinger: Creating this self-damaging cycle may not seem so self-inflicted at first but it devolves and devolves until you may not recognize yourself. Join our good friend Dr. Darrell Wolfe as he explores how to create your own healing environment in your body.
Dr. Darrell Wolfe: Do you also realize that cancer or any other disease is an extension of your corrupted emotions? And do you understand that all corrupted emotions are self-hate?
Do you understand that you’re either loving yourself or hating yourself? “No, I’m neutral.” There’s no such thing as neutral. Either it’s good for you or it’s bad for you. There’s no such thing as good junk food. There’s no such thing as good toxic emotions. But you wouldn’t know they’re toxic because that’s what you’ve been eating all your life, because when you do not dishonor yourself, you will never be sick.
Both of my parents died of cancer in their 50s. I will pass in my sleep because I trust, honor, respect, protect and love myself first and foremost before any other human being on this planet, and know that I was created by my creator out of total love, and I know that to be totally healthy, I must totally love every part of me. If you don’t love every part of you then you’ve lost the game, you just lost right there and society wants you to hate every part of you.
Okay, so I’m asking you. Where’s the love; where’s the love? The love is right here; the love is inside of all of us. Watch. Can you stand up? Want to give me a hug, all right? Okay, oh yeah. Okay now I want to tell you something. I want to tell you something. Do not be threatened, do not be threatened by love anymore because love heals, love is the only thing that heals.
Now here we go. “Time Bomb to a Tumor: Things Will Not Change Until You Change.” Are you ready to change your personality? Are you ready to change your thoughts? Are you ready to put a little “mini you” on your shoulder and start monitoring what you think, say and do? Are you going to stop whining? Are you going to stop complaining that you’re not getting what you need?
Okay, so where’s the love? It’s here, it’s always been in here. All right, and I’m going to tell you what we’re going to do. This is going to be one of the most amazing years of my life. I’ve teamed up with Cancer Tutor, everybody know Cancer Tutor? All right, they’re amazing. That is an amazing, amazing site. These guys are amazing. These guys are love.
So, I’m going to be starting a radio show and it’s going to be called Emotionally Fit for Life on Cancer Tutor starting in a few weeks. And it’s going to be free and you can come on there and ask me any questions you want. And you’ll find out something – I’m really good at what I do. Don’t come on there and lie though because I’m going to catch you, okay?
So, even when you don’t know you’re lying, you’re still lying, did you know that? You’re lying even when you don’t know you’re lying, and you’ll know that you’re lying because you’re not living in joy and bliss. So, you need to get that. Yes, you are allowed to love yourself, you selfish human being.
Okay, all right, let’s do this. Everybody stand up. Okay so this is called Brave Heart breathing technique. Okay so we’re going to put our hands like this, and we’re going to take a deep breath in and we’re going to be Superman or Superwoman, up. So, we’re going to breathe in, then we’re just going to come back down and close our hands but not like a fist.
So, we’re only going to do 10, we usually do 30; we’re going to do it together. Ready, one, let’s go. Make it work. Faster. Okay now just relax for a second, feel what you’re feeling. Some of you think you’re going to have a heart attack because you’re not used to having that kind of energy. Now turn around to the next person beside you, now say this together, ready? “I am a beautiful genius, yeah!” That’s what you are and if I catch you talking bad to yourself again you’re all going to your room.
Alright, so beliefs make, shape, and create your reality map. Did you know you can change your reality map at any time? Did you know that we are all from the same place and we’re only different because of our beliefs and what we focus on? I am exactly the same spirit as you are, we are all brothers and sisters. We are all going to go back and sleep together in this big ball, and then we will awaken together in this big ball, and then we’ll go on another journey, and then we’ll come back together again.
But no, when people passed on you’ve got to cry, you’ve got to grieve for two years and get cancer. And all they were doing was going on a holiday, and you were going to see them again. I’ll prove it to you. Alright, so beliefs make and shape and create your reality map. Do you want a gateway to self-hate or a gateway to self-love?
That’s right. And guess what? The difference is a thought. And guess what? You’re not good enough, you’ll never be good enough, and that’s the thing we play all the time. Unless, look it—nobody loves himself more than I love me. Listen to me; there’s only two types of energy on this planet. What are they? Self-hate and self-love.
Now you’ve got it. That’s it. There’s only two emotions, that’s it, there are no other emotions. If you’re not totally loving yourself then you are hating yourself.
Ty Bollinger: We hope you learned a lot from this video. If you did learn something new, please take a few seconds to let us know in the comment section below.